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I have been considering the DADT policy and a thought came to mind. This tags off an interview I heard on the radio on Laura Ingraham’s show. A seaman stated the videos in question about the removal of the captain were made by the crew with private jokes included – the two girls in the shower as an example. There was the hint of the lesbian angle when this was presented, but as the seaman explained, it was referring to the short length permitted for a shower and the inside joke was who the two girls were. This style was used for the remainder of the videos and when the captain was ordered to stop, he did. About 4 years ago. Interesting that the subject was taken care of 4 years ago and only brought up 1 week after passage of DADT. This leads my mind to the question, “who brought up this 4 year old story that had already been closed? Could not it have been someone in the higher reaches of the military machine – Pentagon area – looking to enhance their standing in light of the new regulation?” The timing is extremely suspect to me.
On the similar subject, I note some commenters have stated the homosexuals were able to serve the military if they wished, just not openly. The only thing this ruling has changed is the ability of the homosexuals to be open on their preferences. This is the problem.
I have had experience with the military, not enlisted, but spouse of enlisted and then officer. The culture of the military is very serious at times, respectful, religious, and proud of the country they serve. The poor situations in which the service – people find themselves, are met with resolve and perseverance. I generalize to the service – people as I have more experience in that realm and the families are included in those affected by service. As an example, I have a good period of experience in being a single parent, due to training and deployments.
Those who loathe the military and desire points with interest groups have foisted this on the individuals enlisted to make their jobs harder, and increase the likelihood that fewer would make it their career. Changes have already been noted.
How would being open about homosexuality cause a problem?
Let’s look at the characteristics from psychology for a moment. In the DSM III homosexuality was a diagnosis and was removed from the DSM IV, according to my professor, by political pressure and threats. He stated he could document the same for anyone interested and I didn’t take him up on the offer at that time. Question from the class was well what characteristics would be considered? Answer: for one, depression. Class: well, if one is not accepted in society, depression would be a natural response. Teacher: what I am saying is that when the results are returned and treated to remove the levels of depression that would be expected by those circumstances, there still remains a 40% increase of depression over the general population. Next is the sexual activity. The average number of partners for homosexuals is 182 per year. (these stats were from the early 90′s) There is nothing in the heterosexual world that comes close. Most of them have something relationally with their mothers – that is old issues, or other things along that line.
(me) I later worked in a hospital with a homosexual. He was very open about the fact and conversation was interesting. Two notes from that experience: he had a joke from his community – what does a lesbian take to a second date? A U-haul. What does a homosexual take to a second date? ( ) There isn’t one. When I heard that, it reminded me of the professor and his statement. This nurse lived with his mother. He also opened up a nursing meeting on Monday with, “you heterosexuals, eat your heart out. 6 times this weekend!”
That was just some snippets from my time working with him. Consider that in the military. Increased risk for depression, relational issues even before the military culture is considered, and blatant sexuality.
It can be argued that homosexuals are not all like this individual or those spoken of by my professor, but I have to ask: If they can already serve like everyone else, why the change? The only reason for the change is to allow the openness which will disrupt the already stressful nature of military service.